Seven Degrees of Consolation
The Torah compares the bond between G-d and Israel to the marriage relationship between man and wife. Thus, when we violated the commandments of the Torah, the prophets admonished us as a wayward wife who has betrayed her husband, and the resultant galut--the destruction of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem and our banishment into exile--is referred to as a period of estrangement and "separation" in the marriage. In the same vein, the prophets speak the messianic redemption as the restoration of the relationship and the forging of a renewed, even deeper bond of love between the bride Israel and her Supernal Groom.
In the innermost chamber of the Holy Temple, the "Holy of Holies," stood a golden ark, containing the "Tablets of Testimony" on which G-d had inscribed the Ten Commandments, as well as the original Torah scroll written by Moses. Topping the Ark were the keruvim, two winged figures, one male and one female, hammered out of a block of pure gold. The keruvim represented the relationship between G-d and His people: the Talmud tells us that when the people of Israel rebelled against the will of the Almighty, the keruvim would turn away from each other; when Israel was faithful to her G-d, they would face each other; times in which the love and goodwill between G-d and His bride were at their peak were reflected in the keruvims embrace "as a man cleaves to his wife" (Talmud, Bava Batra 99a; Yoma 54a).
The Talmud relates that when the enemies of Israel invaded the Temple, they entered into the Holy of Holiesa place so sacred that entry into it was permitted only to a single individual, the High Priest, and only on Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the year. There they saw the keruvim embracing each other. They dragged them out of the Temple and into the streets, mocking and vulgarizing their sacred significance.1
In our prayers we remind ourselves that "Because of our sins, we were exiled from our land... and we are no longer able to ascend and show ourselves and bow before You... in Your chosen home, in the great and holy house upon which Your Name is called."
For more than eight centuries (the First Temple stood 410 years, the Second Temple, 420), G-d dwelled in a physical edifice on a Jerusalem mountaintop, granting us a tactual experience of His presence in our lives. But we proved unworthy of such closeness and intimacy with the divine. The Holy Temple was taken from us, and we were cast into galut--a state of existence in which the divine face is hidden and G-ds love and concern for us is concealed--so that the void in our lives should impel us to repent our ways and repair the damage to our marriage inflicted by our misdeeds.
But if galut is a time of estrangement between G-d and Israel--asks the Lubavitcher Rebbe--why were the keruvim embracing each other at the time of the Temples destruction? Wouldnt the destruction of the Holy Temple mark a nadir in our relationship with the Almighty? What greater paradox can there be: the Divine Groom is destroying His marital home, allowing His nuptial chamber to be violated and His bride to be carried off by strangers, while the barometer of their marriage indicates the ultimate in intimacy and union!
Three and Seven
Following the reading of the weekly Torah portion each Shabbat, a selection from the Prophets, called the haftarah, is read in the synagogue. Usually, the content of the haftarah corresponds to the weeks Torah reading. However, there are weeks when the haftarah instead reflects events connected with the time of the year. Such is the case during the last ten weeks of the year, when ten special haftarot--called the "Three of Rebuke" and the "Seven of Consolation"--are read.
The "Three of Rebuke" are read in conjunction with the "Three Weeks" from Tammuz 17 to Av 9, during which we mourn the destruction of the Temple and the onset of our galut.
On the 17th of Tammuz in the year 3829 from creation (69 ce), the walls of Jerusalem were breached by the besieging armies of Rome. After three weeks of fighting, during which the Romans advanced with great difficulty through the city, they succeeded in breaking into the Temple; on Av 9 they set it aflame. The 9th of Av is also the date of the First Temples destruction, by the Babylonians, in the year 3339 (423 bce). Tammuz 17 and Av 9 are observed as fast days, and the three weeks between them--referred to by the prophet as "between the strictures"--as a time of mourning. In this period, the haftarah readings consist of selections from the Prophets (Jeremiah 1:2-2:3; ibid. 2:4-2:28 and 3:4; and Isaiah 1:1-27) in which the prophet rebukes Israel for her crimes and iniquities and her betrayal of her covenant with G-d.
The "Three of Rebuke" are followed by "Seven of Consolation." For seven weeks, beginning with the Shabbat after the Ninth of Av (Tishah BAv), the haftarah readings consist of prophecies describing G-ds consolation of His people and the rehabilitation of their relationship (Isaiah 40:1-26; 49:14-51:3; 54:11-55:5; 51:12-52:12; 54:1-10; 60:1-22; and 61:10-63:9). Thus we reexperience each year the process of rebuke and condolence, destruction and rebuilding, estrangement and reunion.
But why, specifically, a ten-week process? And what is the significance of its division into three phases of withdrawal and seven degrees of reconciliation? Chassidic sage Rabbi Hillel of Paritch explains that the "Three of Rebuke" and the "Seven of Consolation" correspond to the ten attributes of the soul, which are likewise divided into sets of three and seven: the soul of man possesses three basic intellectual faculties (conceptualization, comprehension, and application), and seven basic emotional drives (love, awe, harmony, ambition, devotion, bonding, and receptiveness). For it is the interrelation between mind and heart that enables us to understand the true nature of the "estrangement" of galut.
Mind and Heart
The mind, by nature and necessity, is aloof and detached. To apprehend a concept it must assume an objective distance, divesting itself of all involvement with or affinity to its subject and adopting a reserved, even callous disinterest toward the studied entity. Only then can its analysis and comprehension be exact and complete.
The heart, on the other hand, is involved, attached, gloriously subjective. The heart relates to the object of its affections, bridging distances, surmounting the barriers between self and other.
Yet true and enduring attachments are born only out of understanding. Feelings which are based on nothing more than impulse or instantaneous attraction are ultimately as shallow as they are impassioned, as transient as they are intense. It is those emotions that are conceived in the womb of the mind which possess depth and continuity; it is the love that is founded upon an understanding and appreciation of the beloved that can transcend the fluctuations of feeling, the letdowns, the lethargy, and the many other pitfalls of time and change.
So the seemingly cold and distant mind is, in truth, the source and essence of any meaningful relationship. The detachment associated with rational examination actually lies at the heart of our emotive capacity to bond with others.
"From my own flesh, I perceive G-d," says the verse. Man is a metaphor of the divine: by examining our own physiological and psychological makeup, we learn much about the divine reality and the manner in which G-d chooses to relate to His creations.
Thus the mind-heart paradox--the manner in which mental detachment is the essence and foundation of true emotional attachment--provides us with a model for the paradox of galut.
G-ds relationship with us also includes both "intellectual" and "emotional" elements. At times, we sense what appear to be signs of detachment and disinvolvement on His part. G-d seems to have shifted the focus of His attention from our lives, abandoning us to the whims of "chance" and "fate." Our existence seems bereft of all direction and purpose. G-d is "distancing" Himself from us, our lives apparently no longer worthy of His concern.
In truth, however, this divine "objectivity" carries the seeds of greater connection. It is a disengagement for the sake of a more enduring relationship, a withdrawal to create an even more meaningful closeness. Ostensibly, galut is a breakdown, a diminution of the bond between ourselves and G-d; in truth, it is the essence of a deeper identification with and commitment to each other.
G-ds hiding His face from us in galut is an act of love. Despite our painful incomprehension, it serves to deepen our attachment to Him. In the "Three of Rebuke," we experience abandonment, alienation and distance; but these give birth to the "Seven of Consolation."
Bereft of the outward expressions of our relationship with G-d, we are impelled to uncover its essence, the quintessential bond which transcends all physical and spiritual distance. Thus, it is only through the experience of galut that the deepest dimensions of our marriage are realized. Externally, the Three Weeks are a period of detachment and estrangement; in essence, they are the height of attachment and connection.
Thus the pagan armies entering the Holy of Holies found the keruvim in intimate embrace. Without, Israel was being vanquished and exiled, and the Holy Temple set ablaze. Externally the marriage was crumbling, the husband alienated and the wayward wife banished to a foreign land. But within the Holy of Holies--within the chamber which housed the essence of their marriage--the bond between G-d and His people was at the height of closeness and unity.
1. As per Yoma 53b, the Ark of Testimony, keruvim atop its cover, were hidden in an underground chamber in the Holy Temple 22 years before the destruction of the First Temple, where they remain to this day. Thus, neither the Babylonians nor the Romans would have found the Ark in the Holy of Holies. The Talmud explains that the keruvim that were dragged out into the streets were not the keruvim from on top of the Ark, but reliefs which decorated the walls of the Holy of Holies and which likewise acted as a "barometer" of the state of marriage between G-d and Israel.